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The biggest hurdle for your growth is your mind. It works in mysterious ways. It will think one thing and make you believe that it is the best for you. It will confuse you. Too many voices. Which one to trust?Most of the times I dont know what I am going to do till the very end. And then I just know. I have the answer. It's always there but somehow we all ignore it because, either it's not what you wished for or you think it's too hard.

You all have to fight for yourselves because noone is coming to save you. If you still think there is someone who is going to catch you when you fall, you probably are sleeping. Because that happens only in dreams. The reality is some of us are not naturally blessed in some aspects of life and its totally okay to be bad at some things and suck at some others.

Nothing cant be not learnt. If you practice and practice, sooner or later you will get there. The question is are you ready to not give up before you reach the destination? Are you willing to allow a bit of disruption to happen in your complacent life. Are you ready to do more to get more? And if the answer is yes then the sky is the limit.

If you think a certain thing will not happen. Your subconscious mind reads that as you dont want that thing to happen. And it is so powerful that it will shift mountains to make things work as you wish. So be careful what you wish and hope for.

The first step to achieve what you want is to believe without any doubt that you will get what you want. You deserve it. And then tell yourself that whatever is needed to be done to achieve that will be done by you no matter the pain and the time and the efforts needed for it.

When you set your goal there should be no turning back. Keep moving. One step at a time. One day at a time. Enjoy the journey. It is the journey and not the destination which will teach you life lessons. The journey of hardships and failures, strength and courage, will and determination will get you closer to your destination. And once you arrive at your destination, embark on a new journey in search of a new destination.

Learning is a continous process with no start and no end. When you decide to change continously you develop and evolve yourself for good. It sometimes will require you to learn, unlearn and relearn. "A foolish consistency is a hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers."- Ralph Waldo Emerson".

Don't be afraid to break the shackles of societal conformity. You dont need anyone's permission to be awesome, to be successful, to be smart, to do what you desire to do, to make changes, to take charge of your life. You need only your own willpower. If the pain is there but not enough to bring out that change, you need even more of the willpower to get you to shake your comatose state of mind and get moving. Come on lets do this. Let's get things moving. Bring it on. Say these things aloud everyday to energise yourself and be motivated to change for the good.

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