Chasing Happiness.

The chase never stops. It never ends. If chasing your dreams is what gives you happiness, then by all means you should do that. Happiness comes with a cost. It means different things to different people at different times. You have to decide at what extremes you can go to reach it.

If everything is happening the way you want it to, then you probably are in the wrong lane. Many times when things suddenly fall in place and you get everything you want you wonder if you are in wonderland. The debilitating feeling of losing everything grips us and we start panicking.

Why it happens is a thing to unfurl. Life's mysteries are easy to solve only if we attempt to understand them. Sometimes you feel like you are being suffocated. There is no one you can turn to. People see the happy face and are quick to judge, not knowing what the person has gone through or going through to reach the place he/ she is in today.

You feel like you are all alone. There is noone who understands you. Noone who cares. And that's the way life is. Remember this is also a phase which has to pass. Be patient. Dont lose yourself. Dont let anybody break your spirit. Be strong in this tornedo, take shelter in your own arms. You dont know how strong you are until your back's up against the wall.

The most docile person when left with no choice but being strong will also cross mountains and succeed. Go no further than yourself. You are the most reliable person, the most resilient one and the most dependable person. So seek help from noone else but you. See how the situation brings out the best in you, how it makes you stronger than before. That which doesnt kill you makes you stronger is a time tested quote.

For a split second if you think you will lose everything you have earned, you become anxious. And that's human nature. Anxiety and nervousness are also important to feel how rich the taste of success and happiness is.

The fear is essential and once you overcome it then there is no stopping you. Only the fear of fear is what will get you panicky, which will hold you from going ahead. If we learn how to wrestle it then we will be one step closer to our dreams. Go unleash your dreams, chase happiness. And a good time to start is - NOW.

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