Magical moments are priceless.

Why would people think magical moments are so rare to find. Magical moments are found ubiquitously, all around you. The only thing is you should be able to know what it is for you and enjoy it when you are in one.

These moments may be as short as a couple of minutes when you have your favourite ice cream after giving yourself a break from clean eating or it might be a day which you spend in the company of your friends, not worrying about the nittier details of your life. It may be a couple of first few months, when you get to know that you are preggers. To some it may be first few years since your baby's birth.

What is more fulfilling than helping somebody in need? That is a magical moment both for the receiver and the giver. For me my topmost magical moments were, when my beautiful daughters were born. The way they care for each other and love each other is very endearing to me. That is something very special. The bond they share between themselves is magical.

The time spent with your family is magical. I always cherish the get togethers we all have as a one big family. Who knows what's in stored for the future. So I like to make the most of the time spent together now. I like to live now, laugh now, spend now (shhhh, I hope my hubby will not read this). I am a follower of make the hay while the sun shines. You can procrastinate all other things but joy.

Once there was this wonderful family of five. A couple and their three kids who went on a day trip. They were very silent in their whole drive from their house to the beach. The man of the house was engrossed in his driving and his work goals. The lady of the house was thinking of the fun they were gonna have at the beach and all the pictures they were gonna upload of the trip. And the three kids were having the blast of their life. Being the innocent ones they didn't know they had to wait for a time or a destination to start having fun. They were together, no matter where, no matter at what time. They needed nothing else but each others company to create the magical moments.

So you get the drift, dont you? Dont wait for the magic to happen. Nothings going to happen if you keep waiting. Create your own happy moments, instead of seeing through a lens of a camera or a smartphone, see through your own eyes. Capture the moments in your heart and mind, that will make them magical and the sweet memories that you can cherish for the lifetime.

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